Help them
Feel love, sympathy and empathy Your task to help to overcome shyness to both the child, and neighbours, and even to your students.
Help them to understand that attractive is in each of them.
Begin with a compliment to the child or students on the fact that they made, or that in them is pleasant to you.
Tell: How you manage to do hair such beautiful?
, but it is not simple: You have beautiful hair or It was always pleasant to me as you joke or: as you solve problems you always find the original solution.